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Carol Gilligan
3 books · 1 interview
psychology
What they argue
Carol Gilligan is a thinker who explores the intersection of morality, relationality, and cultural systems. She examines how human capacities for relating and feeling are shaped by social structures and critiques the limitations of justice-based moral frameworks.
Relational Morality
Morality is a relational practice rather than a mathematical equation of universal rules. It involves the ability to balance competing obligations and recognize the unique, contextual needs of others.
From Making connections (book)
- Pushes the other way Sam Harris — The Science of Well-BeingMorality is a branch of the science of well-being; it is the study of what makes human lives flourish. Because human flourishing is tied to biological and social facts,…The Moral Landscape
- A related idea David Hume — The Moral SenseMorality is a 'moral sense' rooted in human sentiment and social utility, not a branch of pure reason or a set of divine laws. We do not reason our way into knowing…Moral and political philosophy
Critique of Justice-Based Morality
A purely justice-based view of morality is shallow because it focuses only on applying universal, impartial rules. This perspective fails to account for the complexities of life where relational connections matter.
From Making connections (book)
- Pushes the other way John Rawls — Justice as FairnessJustice is not about 'the good' or what makes a life happy, but about fairness in how we distribute rights and duties. It is a procedural approach where justice is…A Theory of Justice
- A related idea Stefan Zweig — The Moral Necessity of BreadthArtistic justice requires a 'breadth of scope' that covers entire cycles of history rather than isolated episodes. This prevents the distortion of truth by ensuring a…Romain Rolland
Relational Pleasure
Pleasure is an ontological and relational 'opening' that allows humans to transcend solitary survival to create a shared world of meaning. It is the capacity to be 'with' something without needing to 'use' it.
From The Birth of Pleasure (book)
- A related idea Emily Morse — Pleasure as a BirthrightPleasure is a fundamental human right and not something that must be earned through productivity or specific milestones. When people view pleasure as a reward, they…Hotline Calls: Troubleshoot Your Orgasms
Instrumental vs. Relational Pleasure
Modern culture often treats pleasure as a commodity or a destination to be consumed. Gilligan argues against this instrumental view, advocating for pleasure as a connection to the other.
From The Birth of Pleasure (book)
- A related idea Emily Morse — Pleasure as a BirthrightPleasure is a fundamental human right and not something that must be earned through productivity or specific milestones. When people view pleasure as a reward, they…Hotline Calls: Troubleshoot Your Orgasms
- A related idea John Gray — Instrumental vs. Relational GoalsMen are generally 'instrumental,' meaning they communicate to solve problems, achieve goals, and establish status. Women generally communicate to share experiences,…Why Mars & Venus collide
The Splitting of Human Capacities
Patriarchy functions as a culture versus human problem by dividing universal human traits, such as reason and emotion, into binary categories. This system demands that children sacrifice their authentic voices to fit into privileged or subordinate roles.
From 106: Patriarchy is perpetuated through parenting (Part 1) (episode)
The Democratic Response
To resist patriarchal forces, parents can foster a democratic environment within the family. This involves ensuring every family member has a voice that is listened to with respect.
From 106: Patriarchy is perpetuated through parenting (Part 1) (episode)
Every idea names the summary it came from. Written by a local model from this mind’s own work, never from memory.
Books 3
- Making connections — Moral development is not a matter of following abstract rules, but of navigating the complex, messy web of…
- The Birth of Pleasure — Pleasure is not a mere biological byproduct of gratification; it is a fundamental, creative, and relational capacity…
- In a Different Voice — Moral development is not a single ladder of abstract justice; it is a diverse landscape where some people prioritize…
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