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Ask DS is a thinker who explores Stoic philosophy as a practical framework for navigating the complexities of modern life. They focus on developing internal character, emotional resilience, and personal agency through the application of ancient wisdom to contemporary challenges.

  1. The Dichotomy of Control

    This is the fundamental principle that some things are up to us, such as our thoughts and actions, while others are not, such as the weather or other people's opinions. It serves as a tool for engagement by helping individuals focus on what they can actually influence.

    From Just Get It Done | Ask DS (episode)

    • Says much the same Marcus Aurelius — The Dichotomy of ControlThis is the fundamental distinction between what is 'up to us' (opinions, intentions, and actions) and what is not (the body, property, reputation, and the actions of…The thoughts of Marcus Aurelius
    • Says much the same Ryan Holiday — The Dichotomy of ControlThis is the foundational principle of Stoicism which distinguishes between things that are up to us and things that are not. Our suffering stems almost entirely from a…Lives of the Stoics

  2. The Inner Citadel

    This is a mental fortress of purpose, confidence, and strength that remains untouched by external criticism, pressure, or violence. It shifts the locus of control from the outside world to the internal self.

    From Can You Build a Castle? | Ask DS (episode)

    • Says much the same Catharine Edwards — The Citadel of the MindThis is a method of 'short retreats' used to maintain mental clarity. It involves identifying 'indifferent' factors, such as the actions of others or the state of the…Marcus Aurelius
    • Says much the same Ryan Holiday — The Internal CitadelYour reputation is a shadow; your character is the substance. Reputation is what people say about you when you aren't in the room; character is who you are when no one…Right Thing, Right Now

  3. The Sovereignty of the Self

    True power is defined as the ability to rule over yourself and maintain your own principles regardless of what the world takes away. Unlike money or status, which are 'loaned' by the world, this power is internal and cannot be revoked.

    From Real Power Can't Be Taken Away | Ask DS (episode)

    • Pushes the other way Robert A. Caro — The Machinery of GovernmentTrue power lies in the ability to seize and operate the actual machinery of government to force a reluctant nation to enact sweeping reforms. This requires a…The years of Lyndon Johnson (Volumes 1-4)
    • A related idea Robert A. Greene — Self-MasteryTrue power is the ability to master your own internal emotional state so completely that you can project a persona of absolute certainty. By observing emotions without…The 50th law

  4. The Accessible Standard

    Stoicism should be measured by active effort rather than immediate perfection. This prevents the 'all-or-nothing' trap where a single slip-up makes a person feel like a failure.

    From Can You At Least Be This? | Ask DS (episode)

    • A related idea Catharine Edwards — The Distinction of ControlStoicism hinges on the radical distinction between what is up to us and what is not. Because the past is gone and the future is not yet here, human agency exists only…Marcus Aurelius

  5. The Medicine of Gratitude

    Gratitude is a tool for mental health and a choice of perspective used to maintain stability in a chaotic world. It involves choosing the 'gratitude handle' over the 'resentment handle' when faced with frustrations.

    From Every Day Is A Day To Give Thanks | Ask DS (episode)

    • A related idea Melody Beattie — Active Noticing as GratitudeGratitude is a spiritual discipline of 'active noticing' where one deliberately observes the mundane to anchor the soul in the present. This practice serves as an…Gratitude

  6. The Distinction of Fortune

    The moral value of an experience is determined by the character developed in response to it rather than the event itself. A 'bad' event is only a tragedy if it fails to lead to a better internal state.

    From It’s Good If It Makes You Good | Ask DS (episode)

  7. Courage as the Foundation

    Courage is the 'mother of all virtues' because virtue can only be practiced by doing something in a world that is not perfectly aligned with your values. It is the ability to act despite an incredibly unlikely probability of success.

    From Nobody Won Afraid Of Losing | Ask DS (episode)

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